
British pop sensation Jessie J is known for her powerhouse vocals, bold lyrics, and fierce stage presence. But beyond the glitz and glamour of the music world, she’s also a woman navigating the beautiful complexities of love, motherhood, and partnership. In a recent candid interview, Jessie J revealed heartfelt details about her relationship with Danish-Israeli professional basketball player, Chanan Safir Colman — and fans are absolutely here for it.
“I Made the First Move”
In a refreshing moment of honesty, Jessie J shared that she was the one who initiated the relationship with Colman. “I made the first move,” she admitted with a smile, adding that it felt natural and empowering. This confession struck a chord with many, especially in a world where traditional gender roles around courtship are still prevalent.
Now that she took the leap to start the relationship, Jessie says she’ll leave the proposal up to Chanan. “I did the asking out, so he can do the proposing,” she joked. But quickly added, “I’m not in any rush.”
Love, on Their Own Terms

Though the couple talks and laughs about marriage, Jessie emphasized that there’s no pressure. “We’re not in a hurry. We talk about it, but right now we’re just enjoying life, our family, and each other,” she explained. One key reason for the delay? She wants their son, Sky, to be old enough to understand and be part of the wedding.
“It’s important to me that Sky is there, understands what’s happening, and can be part of the memories,” she shared. That sentiment shows just how deeply Jessie values family and the meaning behind the celebration of love.
Colman as a Father: “Beyond What I Hoped For”
Jessie didn’t hold back in praising Colman’s role as a father. “He’s more than I could’ve ever hoped for in a partner and a dad,” she said. According to the singer, he has not only been emotionally supportive but has also encouraged her in her career as a working mom.
Her admiration for Colman paints a picture of a modern love story built on trust, teamwork, and shared values. Their bond has grown stronger with the arrival of their son, Sky, who was born in May 2023.
From Grief to Joy
The couple’s journey hasn’t been without pain. Jessie J suffered a miscarriage in 2021 a heartbreaking loss that she has spoken about openly. But in the midst of grief came light. Meeting Colman marked the beginning of a new chapter in her life.
“He came into my life when I was broken, and helped piece me back together,” Jessie revealed. Since then, their relationship has blossomed, rooted in deep emotional connection and mutual respect.
While marriage isn’t immediate, Jessie J envisions a beautiful, meaningful celebration someday one that involves their families, friends, and especially their little boy. “It’s not about a big dress or a perfect Instagram post,” she said. “It’s about love, growth, and a future together.”
As fans continue to support Jessie in her music and personal journey, her openness about relationships and motherhood is a reminder that love doesn’t always follow a script and that’s perfectly okay.
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